Arizona's Khalil Tate sits on the turf after a keeper near the end zone in the second half of the Wildcats' defeat at Houston.
When you’re in a football family, you thank the sweet Lord for a new week after a loss.
In the Cecil house, we are conditioned to learn what we can from mistakes and turn those mistakes in to victories. It’s our people’s way of coping. Arizona’s loss to Houston was no different. Yes, it was brutal — I am not going to lie. Like many Tucson fans I watched the game on TV. I was holed-up in the Westin Hotel in Indianapolis after wrapping up a leadership teaching session at NCAA headquarters. As I flew home that night I read a lot of the media coverage about Arizona and felt heartbroken for our student-athletes. I sat quietly watching Khalil Tate’s postgame press conference and all I could think was, “He’s only 19 years old with the weight of us all on his shoulders.†It really hit me that we’re not in the NFL anymore. There, players are grown men paid to work full-time at the job of winning football games. These are 18-to-20-year-old full-time students juggling campus, papers, tests, girls, challenges, life and playing football 20 hours a week.
Chuck picked me up at the airport at 9:30 p.m. still in his travel suit as he had gone from landing in Tucson directly to the Lowell-Stevens Football Facility to watch the game film. Although Chuck's not a coach, he’s a competitor, and any insights he can find to help our Wildcats, he’s willing to grind away. As we drove home in the big red Dodge Ram holding hands in silence, I tried to make small talk about my observations. He smiled and gently reminded me, “Our guys are playing their hearts out because they love the game, and tomorrow they may be a doctor, lawyer, pilot or in the NFL, we don’t know. What we do know is that we need to keep reminding them that getting knocked down in life is a given but getting up and moving forward is a choice — win or lose — on or off of the field.â€
I hope we can all rally this weekend for the game against Southern Utah because your support in the stands is vital to our athletes, coaches, and my hubby’s morale and success. We are Wildcats!
It's Motivation Monday and time to power through. Start strong. Finish Strong. STAY POSITIVE. That is all...
— Chuck Cecil (@chuckcecil26)

